Hi,
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how do i get fields to show on different tabs in reg/profile form

The tabs are displayed on Registration and edit profile forms, You can disable this feature from Components->Easy Profile->Options
If you have problem to see the tabs try to enable (in Easy Profile Option) the parameter "Load Bootstrap CSS". If this not work you may have one of the follow problem:
- CSS Problem
- your template override registration and/or edit profile template
- Javascript error

i can't seem to drag fields into groups

Drag and drop is only for order fields, you cannot change the group from a list of field. To do this we plan to extends the Batch function in future.